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See how Au Milieu is transforming infant-parent psychotherapy and shaping healthier families. Watch our intro video:
“This Training Really Makes Me Think — I Go Away From Clinical Supervision Sessions Wanting To Use What I’ve Learned In My Own Work.”
Clinical Psychologist, Perinatal Team (Setting Up Infant-Parent Service):
“This Training Really Makes Me Think — I Go Away From Clinical Supervision Sessions Wanting To Use What I’ve Learned In My Own Work.”
Clinical Psychologist, Perinatal Team (Setting Up Infant-Parent Service):
“This Course Has Been Amaz“This Training Really Makes Me Think — I Go Away From Clinical Supervision Sessions Wanting To Use What I’ve Learned In My Own Work.”
Clinical Psychologist, Perinatal Team (Setting Up Infant-Parent Service):
“This Course Has Been Amazing. It’s Helped Me Become More Of A Therapist In The Room, Not Just Someone Delivering An Intervention. It’s Given Me Confidence And Made Me Enjoy My Work So Much More.”
Systemic Therapist & Counselling Psychologist – Perinatal IPP Therapist:
“I’ve Found Both The Theory And Clinical Sessions So Enriching — Especially Learning Alongside Such A Diverse Group. The Skills Are Genuinely Transferable To My Current Work.”
Integrative Child Psychotherapist:
“When I Was Unwell, The Support From Yvonne Really Mattered. You Don’t Always Feel Held At Work — But Here, I Did.
The Theory, The Papers, The Speakers — It’s Deepened My Understanding Of Babies And Relational Work. I Felt Privileged To Learn From Such Brilliant People.
Clinical Psychologist – Perinatal Team, Infant-Parent Service Lead:
ing. It’s Helped Me Become More Of A Therapist In The Room, Not Just Someone Delivering An Intervention. It’s Given Me Confidence And Made Me Enjoy My Work So Much More.”
Systemic Therapist & Counselling Psychologist – Perinatal IPP Therapist:
“I’ve Found Both The Theory And Clinical Sessions So Enriching — Especially Learning Alongside Such A Diverse Group. The Skills Are Genuinely Transferable To My Current Work.”
Integrative Child Psychotherapist:
“When I Was Unwell, The Support From Yvonne Really Mattered. You Don’t Always Feel Held At Work — But Here, I Did.
The Theory, The Papers, The Speakers — It’s Deepened My Understanding Of Babies And Relational Work. I Felt Privileged To Learn From Such Brilliant People.
Clinical Psychologist – Perinatal Team, Infant-Parent Service Lead:
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These five seminars give an introduction to the main branches of theory, research and practice that inform clinical interventions in the field of early relational health. The course begins looking at attachment, both in children and adults, and covers when this relationship becomes seriously insecure. There is an overview of babies’ brain development, including how this is affected by maltreatment. The adverse factors that may distort the caregiving relationship are examined, as well as the range of clinical practices that may be applied to help a vulnerable family. The course ends with considering some of the events in the early years that may lead to violent behaviour in adolescence and adulthood, providing a recapitulation of all previous topics.
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The Course will cover:
Outline:
These seminars will last about three hours each. It is expected that participants will ask questions during the presentations (not just at the end) and that there will be periods of discussion, so this will affect timing. Every seminar ends with a suggested book reading list and the final session has a slide with links to a few useful websites.
Attendees will be given Dropbox access to electronic handouts of important papers on each topic and a pdf version of the presentation after each seminar.
The sessions will cover:
Seminar 1 – Thursday 9 April 2026
1) After a general introduction the initial two sessions concentrate on what has been learnt from attachment theory and research. They begin with an introduction to how relationships affect development; leading on to the background to attachment theory and the way this enables us to examine the importance of early relationships, for many different domains of development. Attachment is placed in context of Bowlby’s other motivational systems and how this is an evolved behavioural pattern that contributes to infant survival and homeostasis. There is an introduction to how the attachment relationship sculpts the social brain and how, in optimal circumstances, this both benefits from and leads on to adult parental reflective function. The neurological correlates of attachment are introduced so they may be expanded upon in a later seminar. We examine the phases of the development of attachment behaviours, with this leading on to a detailed description of how the different patterns of attachment behaviour depend on the quality of the relationship with the caregiver while unpacking the concept of sensitivity and responsiveness.
This includes the phases of abandonment (mourning) and how attachment to behaviour alters as the baby matures and gains more skills. Fathers and the concept of the activation relationship are there for a balance. The different patterns of internal working models corresponding to the attachment categories are considered, showing how these are a mixture of activating and deactivating strategies for maintaining proximity to the caregiver in times of stress. This seminar ends with a stylised description of the developmental pathway to adulthood that may be associated with each attachment category, leaving the more problematic disorganised attachment to seminar 2.
Seminar 2 – Thursday 16 April 2026
2) This begins with traumatic attachments, looking at what happens when the attachment relationship becomes a source of stress or fear for the child. Disorganised attachment and the background to this set of responses is examined in more detail, including how it manifests in the Strange Situation Procedure, with the caveat that this does not invariably stem from maltreatment as is often assumed. This includes the internal world of the child and the possible grave developmental consequences. As a practical example we briefly look at how the different behaviour patterns of the three insecure attachments can affect both child and parents when the former has been fostered or adopted. This leads on to how the different attachment patterns, or internal working models, are represented in adulthood (including partner choice and patterns of relating) how this is measured in the Adult Attachment Interview plus the manner in which these might impact parenting in a way that may partially explain the continuity of attachment patterns over generations.
Seminar 3 – Thursday 23 April 2026
3) This seminar follows on from the previous mention of attachment and neurological development, emphasising the importance of relationships throughout the life cycle. We begin with the evolutionary background to neuroplasticity as the defining characteristic of human brain development. The central point is how the baby’s brain adapts to its environment of significant relationships, as the first 1001 days mark the 3 phases of maximum neuroplasticity. There is a brief description of the science of epigenetics before a more detailed look at brain anatomy and the sequence of development, including the concept of sensitive periods, during the first few years of life. We will examine synaptic structure and growth during the formation of neural networks and how the latter become stabilised, sometimes leading to vulnerability for future problems for a minority of children. There is a short mention of the second phase of neuroplasticity during adolescence. The first three years of life have been artificially split into six months periods of brain development and correlated with the infant’s increasing skill set. Then we look at the downside to plasticity and sensitive periods, or rather windows of vulnerability, and how the brain will also automatically adapt to a harsh environment. This begins a more detailed description of the neurobiological consequences of maltreatment, including neglect, and attachment related trauma in general. This will include more in-depth information on the autonomic nervous system and the stress / survival responses, ending on a more positive note by hinting that children can change in the right circumstances.
Seminar 4 – Thursday 30 April 2026
4) Here we begin by examining the concept of infant mental health, or rather early relational health, and how so many factors (as covered in the previous three seminars) contribute to this in both positive and negative ways. Again, the centrality of relationships is stressed throughout, looking through a transactional perspective to illustrate this and bringing in the related ecological/demographic issues that impact a family and consequently the infant’ development. This means that the stressors that impact vulnerable families (or risk factors) that are examined here need to be always kept in the mind of early years practitioners. We briefly cover sociodemographic factors, interactional or parenting variables, parental past experiences (‘ghosts in the nursery’) and, finally, any medical problems the baby may present with. The impact of maternal stress during pregnancy on foetus and subsequent child development is also addressed. This leads on to data from the ACE studies and how this research may be used to emphasise the importance of 4 preventing maltreatment in the early years. A final overview of how the early attachment relationship affects development leads on to the many different ways that practitioners may prevent later social and emotional difficulties with early intervention. The fundamental beliefs and practices behind infant mental health informed work are set out as well, stressing a strength-based approach, as are some of the economic research and arguments for early intervention. After looking at these specialised therapeutic aims a number of different evidence-based therapeutic interventions are described.
Seminar 5 – Thursday 7 May 2026
5) The final session recapitulates some of the central information from all the previous ones by examining how violent behaviour, or rather a lack of self-regulation, and many forms of mental illness have their roots in the experiences of infancy. (Not invariably of course.) This also covers some of the possible early background to self-harm and suicidal behaviour. We begin with a reminder that aggression should be viewed as normal human behaviour within certain contexts, as it is a natural response to insecurity or threat. Aggression and violence are different, and usually the latter reduces as the child matures and internalises mechanisms for self-control, or affect regulation, both of which stem from the quality of early caregiving and find their home in the prefrontal cortex. The rise of empathy, an aspect of the attachment relationship also plays a central role in inhibiting anti-social acts. These skills may be compromised by the experience of stress and fear during the first few years of life, the time of maximum neuroplasticity. The parent’s capacity for reflective functioning or mind-mindedness (mentalising in action) is important to consider, and this also is knowledge that can be applied to intervention (as was briefly mentioned in the previous seminar) as well as contributing to emotional awareness as a protective factor that can be encouraged. We look at childhood adversity as a concept that covers many different stressful and dangerous experiences, leading on to another consideration of how this might affect the infant’s internal working models of relating. Developmental threat should also be seen within an ecological model, returning to the past consideration of risk factors.
This leads on to a more detailed consideration of the effects of maltreatment during infancy, including witnessing violence in the home: covering a range of mental health problems, relationships, anti-social plus violent and inappropriately aggressive behaviour and finally a more detailed examination of suicidal impulses and the common traits shown by those young people at risk. Violence, in conclusion, has many contributing factors stemming from actual and avoidable experiences, including those experienced pre-birth; it may indicate both poor reflective function (as found in borderline personality disorder) and be an example of ego defences set up during the early years. We separate threat from deprivation and go on to briefly look again at how these forms of maltreatment may influence brain development in the early years, with neglect often a greater risk for a later lack of self-control. This is gloomy to say the least, so we end with a reminder that intervention can be as useful as it is necessary.
This series of seminars was originally developed at the request of the Sure Start manager in Cheltenham. Over the years attendees have included health visitors, paediatricians, social workers, midwives, GPs, CAMHS staff, foster and adoptive parents, nursery and community workers, child and adult psychotherapists and even the odd manager.
Reading list.
These are resources listed during the course. None of these books are essential, more suggestions for further reading. Search for any more up to date books first. A selection of relevant papers will be made available to attendees following each seminar and many of the slides have links to relevant research.
1 & 2. An introduction to attachment theory and research.
• Karen, R (2024) Becoming Attached: First Relationships and How They Shape Our
Capacity to Love. Oxford University Press.
• Goldberg, S. (2000) Attachment and Development. London: Arnold.
• Holmes, J. (1993) John Bowlby & Attachment Theory. London: Routledge.
• Prior, V. & Glaser, D. (2006) Understanding Attachment and Attachment Disorders.
Jessica Kingsley.
• Beebe, B. & Lachmann, F. M. (2014) The Origins of Attachment. New York:
Routledge.
3. Early brain development and relationships.
• Joseph LeDoux. (2002) The Synaptic Self. London: Penguin Books.
• Susan Hart. (2006) Brain, Attachment, Personality. London: Karnac.
• Daniel Siegal (2020) The Developing Mind (3 rd ed.) New York: The Guilford Press.
• Lisa Feldman Barrett, (2021) Seven and a Half Lessons About The Brain. London:
Picador.
• Sarah-Jayne Blakemore, (2018) Inventing Ourselves: The Secret Life of the Teenage
Brain. London: Transworld Publishers.
4. Risk factors and examples of therapeutic intervention.
• Penelope Leach (Ed.) (2017) Transforming Infant Wellbeing. London: Routledge.
• Joy Osofsky, Philip Stepka & Lucy King. (2017) Treating Infants and Young Children
Impacted by Trauma. Washington DC: American Psychological Association.
• Mares, Newman, & Warren, (Eds) (2011) Clinical Skills in Infant Mental Health. (2 nd
ed.) ACER Press, Australia.
• Alicia Lieberman & Patricia Van Horn. (2008) Psychotherapy with Infants and Young
Children. New York: The Guilford Press.
• Alicia Lieberman, et al., (2020) Make Room for Baby. New York: The Guilford Press.
5. The background to violence: Impact of early maltreatment.
• Prior, V. & Glaser, D. (2006) Understanding Attachment and Attachment Disorders:
Theory, Evidence and Practice. Jessica Kingsley.
• Van Der Kolk, (2014) The Body Keeps the Score. New York: Viking.
• Joy Osofsky, (Ed) (2004) Young Children and Trauma: Intervention and Treatment.
The Guilford Press.
• Robin Kar-Morse & Meredith Wiley, (2018) Ghosts From the Nursery, (2 nd edition)
New York: The Atlantic Monthly Press.
• Robin Karr-Morse, R. & Meredith Wiley, (2012) Scared Sick: The Role of Childhood
Trauma in Adult Disease. New York: Basic Books.
This seminar will examine how poverty sometimes affects the relationship between a parent and their very young child. Living with economic hardship correlates with multiple adverse situations and experiences which can make it hard for a parent to hold a baby in mind. In addition, there is also the simple fact that a lack of resources means that parents may not be able to provide for their children as they would wish. This is definitely not to imply that being poor make somebody a ‘poor’ parent; it is more a matter of unpicking the multiple stressors associated with living in a situation of economic deprivation that may titrate down to the caregiving relationship.
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This seminar will examine how poverty sometimes affects the relationship between a parent and their very young child. Living with economic hardship correlates with multiple adverse situations and experiences which can make it hard for a parent to hold a baby in mind. In addition, there is also the simple fact that a lack of resources means that parents may not be able to provide for their children as they would wish. This is definitely not to imply that being poor make somebody a ‘poor’ parent; it is more a matter of unpicking the multiple stressors associated with living in a situation of economic deprivation that may titrate down to the caregiving relationship. It needs to be more widely recognised that parenting is, in many ways, situationally dependent and so is open to being supported by decisions taken at a political as much as a personal level. There will be an overview of some of the research that has covered how poverty may impact the future development of infants across multiple domains. The overall perspective is clinical, as the origin of this presentation was how an awareness of the more distal risks that might impact a vulnerable family broadens both the therapeutic mind and repertoire. It is hoped that there will be plenty of time for discussion, and all participants will receive a copy of the presentation.
The title of this module follows the work of the paediatrician and psychoanalyst, Berry Brazelton. We will explore the developmental milestones identified by Brazelton.
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The title of this module follows the work of the paediatrician and psychoanalyst, Berry Brazelton. We will explore the developmental milestones identified by
Brazelton. We will also closely examine parent-infant concepts of relating, from the work of pioneering psychoanalysts such as Sigmund Freud, Melanie Klein, Donald Winnicott and John Bowlby. Alongside these early theorists, we will explore developmental theorists such as Daniel Stern’s and Beatrice Beebe’s clinical and research work. The participants will be encouraged to draw examples of each stage of development from their clinical work and infant observation. We will examine pre-birth relating, research regarding newborns and examine significant developmental milestones up to toddlerhood. The module will encourage comparison between the different theorists and a critique, drawing from contemporary thinking, research and some neuroscience research.
In this module we will explore the beginnings of life and how a baby is born into a complex psychological world and a rich socio-cultural milieu. We will explore how the transmission of culture and ‘racial’ meanings takes place both implicitly and explicitly.
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In this module we will explore the beginnings of life and how a baby is born into a complex psychological world and a rich socio-cultural milieu. We will explore how the transmission of culture and ‘racial’ meanings takes place both implicitly and explicitly. We will discuss the importance of understanding cross-cultural meanings and racial belonging and how it can enhance our clinical work, especially when working with those who have experienced micro-aggressions and racism. The validation of these experiences is vital in infant-parent psychotherapy and enhances trust in the therapist’s capacity to support the parent/family. The module will include discussion of the participants’ clinical work as well as reflection on their own racial/cultural backgrounds. We will carefully explore how our own backgrounds and values might filter into the clinical work through the therapeutic relationship and transference and countertransference processes.
We focus on providing training in infant-parent psychotherapy and other infant-parent interventions. We continue to establish infant-parent relationship teams that provide free therapeutic support to parents on a low income, who are concerned about their relationship with their babies in the first two years of life.” For more info on what our key objectives are, use the quick links below for more information.
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After premature birth and high anxiety, intensified IPP helped the family avoid medication, rebuild coping strategies, and prepare for a healthy second birth. Sessions supported emotional recovery and activated family-wide support.
Case Study: GP & Health Visitor Referral
Mother labelled as difficult was grieving a previous infant loss. IPP helped reduce anxiety, re-establish maternal connection, and shift staff perceptions. Bonding was rebuilt with her surviving baby in just five sessions.
Case Study: SCBU Paediatrician Referral (Bereavement)
With the baby at risk of removal, therapy helped mother bond during pregnancy, gain the court’s confidence, and build a nurturing environment post-birth. Three years later, mother and child remain safely together.
Case Study: Domestic Violence Referral
Mother, with EUPD and five children previously removed, received long-term IPP and support for co-parenting. Therapy helped her and the father break intergenerational patterns. Social services stepped back once the baby turned one.
Case Study: Adult Mental Health Referral
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